November 29 2015 How To Earn The Respect Of Others

How To Earn The Respect Of Others

Proverbs 22: 1 (NCV) "Being respected is more important than having great riches. To be well thought of is better than silver or gold..

A good reputation is built on CHARACTER not IMAGE

1 Samuel 16:7

FOUR CHARACTERISTICS OF PEOPLE WE RESPECT

1. Speak with INTEGRITY

Proverbs 17:7 (GN) "Respected people do not tell lies."

Proverbs 25:15 (GN) "Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of gifts he does not give.

Proverbs 10:9 (GN) "A man of integrity walks securely.”

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2. Serve with INTENSITY

Proverbs 14:22 (GN)"You will earn the trust and respect of others if you work for good.

Proverbs 11:17 (GN)"If your goals are good, you will be respected "

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3. Share with GENEROSITY

Psalm 112:9 (GN)"He who gives generously to the needy and shows kindness will be powerful and respected

Proverbs 11:25 A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.

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4. Succeed with HUMILITY

Proverbs 29:23 (GN) "Arrogance will bring your downfall, but if you are humble, you will be respected "

Proverbs 27:21 (NEB) "Praise is the test of character. "

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Proverbs 10:7 (GN) "Good people will be remembered as a blessing but the wicked will soon be forgotten."

October 28 The Choice Of Giving

THE CHOICE OF GIVING

Matt. 5:7 - Happy are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.

The Motive of Mercy

Vs. 7- Happy are the merciful.

We must experience God’s mercy.
I Peter 1:3 - Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. In His great mercy, He has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.

Complete surrender to God.
Romans 12:1 - I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God that you present your bodies (yourselves) a living sacrifice to God.

The Marks of Mercy

Matt. 5:7 - Happy are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.

Mercy is: Kindness

What are the Marks:

1. I’ll accept people where they are.
I Thes. 5:14 - Encourage the timid, help the weak, and be patient with everyone.

2. Keep the Spirit of forgiveness.
Matt. 18:22 - But up to seventy times seven.

Col 3:13 - Be gentle and ready to forgive, never hold grudges. Remember the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.

3. We must support each other.
Gal. 6:2 - Bear one another’s burdens.

Hosea 6:6 - For I desire mercy, not sacrifice.

4. I’ll help those who are hurting.
Prov. 3:27 - Whenever you possibly can, do good to those who need it.

I John 3:17-18 - If someone who is supposed to be a Christian has enough money to live well, and sees a brother in need but won’t help him, how can God’s love be in him? Let’s stop just saying we love people, let’s show it by our actions.

The Mastering of Mercy

• Don’t nurse them

• Don’t curse them

• Do release the wound.

You get what you give:

Prov. 11:17 - Your own soul is nourished when you are kind, it is destroyed when your are cruel.