May 10 2015 Freedom In Communication
/FREEDOM IN COMMUNICATION
Proverbs 15:2 – When wise men speak, they make knowledge attractive.
SEVEN STEPS TO FREEDOM IN COMMUNICATION
I. Step One: Choose the right time.
Ecclesiastes 8:6 – There is a right time and right way to do everything.
II. Step Two: Plan the presentation.
Proverbs 16:23 – Intelligent people think before they speak. What they say is then more persuasive.
TWO THINGS TO PLAN
- Introduction.
- Illustrations.
III. Step Three: Begin with their needs.
Ephesians 4:29 – Speak only what is helpful for building up others.
IV. Step Four: Learn to listen first.
Proverbs 18:63 – Listen before you answer. If you don’t you’re being stupid and insulting.
James 1:19 – Be quick to listen, and slow to speak.
V. Step Five: Say things positively.
Proverbs 16:21 – A mature person is known for his understanding. The more pleasant his words, the more persuasive he is.
VI. Step Six: Clarify your conclusions.
Philippians 4:2 – Agree with each other in the Lord.
VII. Step Seven: End with encouraging words.
Proverbs 12:25 – A word of encouragement does wonders.
REAFFIRM THREE THINGS
- Your commitment.
- Your love.
- A sense of Optimism.
