May 15 2016 Managing Life's Rejections
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MANAGING LIFE’S REJECTIONS
Proverbs 18:14 - A man’s spirit will endure sickness, but a broken spirit, who can bear?
SIX SYMPTOMS OF REJECTION
1. Easily hurt.
2. Have a fear of failure.
3. Often suspicious of others.
4. Often isolate themselves from others.
5. Feel they have to prove themselves all the time.
6. Difficulty trusting God.
HOW TO RESPOND TO LIFE’S REJECTIONS
1. Release my pain.
Matthew 5:4 – Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Psalm 62:8 – Pour out your heart to God, for He is our refuge.
Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
2. Receive from others.
Galatians 6:2 – Carry each other’s burdens. By helping each other with your troubles, you obey the law of Christ.
Hebrews 12:15 – Look after each other so that not one of you will fail to find God’s best blessing.
3. Refuse to be bitter.
Job 21:25 – Some people have no happiness at all; they live and die with a bitter heart.
Hebrews 12:15 – Watch out that no bitterness takes root among you, it causes deep trouble hurting many in their spiritual lives.
The Antidote:
-Accept what cannot be changed.
Job 11:13, 16 – Reach out to God, then face the world again, firm and courageous.
-Focus on what’s left not what’s lost.
1 Thessalonians 5:18 – No matter what happens always be thankful, for this is God’s will for you.
4. Remember what’s important.
Luke 12:15 – Jesus said life is not measured by how much one owns.
1 Timothy 6:7 – We brought nothing into the world and we can take nothing out of it.
5. Rely on Christ.
Philippians 4:13 – I have learned the secret of being happy at any time in everything that happens. I can do all things through Christ, because He gives me strength.
HOW?
-Lean on Christ for stability!
Psalm 125:1 – Those who trust in the Lord are steady as Mount Zion, unmoved by any circumstance.
Psalm 112:6-7 – Such a person will not be overthrown by evil circumstances. God’s constant care of him will make a deep impression on all who see it. He does not fear bad news, nor live in dread of what may happen. For he is settled in his mind that God will take care of him.
-Listen to Christ for direction!
Jeremiah 29:11 – I know what I am planning for you, says the Lord. I have good plans for you, not plans to hurt you. I will give you hope and a good future.
-Look to Christ for salvation.
Job 2:7 – When I have lost all hope, I once again turn my thoughts to the Lord.
